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May 17, 2008

The newly married what if overcome sex to fear

Newly married of happiness main come from sex life, young man to newly married of imagine to also have much reason is come from to sex contact of desire.But on this problem but separate the men and women, the single female usually will not be like a male so eager to have a try, on the contrary would creation fear of feeling.

Speak from the theories, female of this kind of fearing feeling be not a cancellation of, because it embed in the female of the subconscious, can say, this kind of feared feeling to accumulate Dian mankind how much year all sexual behavior of history.Again say, cancellation it also have no advantage, this kind of fear feeling for single young girl of ego protection consciousness arrive positive effect.But, when a miss will become a bride, this kind of fear feeling still mightiness very, that wasn't a good matter.It can result in vagina spasm, can also result in female of sex apathy or sex high tide lack.
  Take to fear feeling get married, inevitable will have break after getting married to sex life or bar function, so of result not only bridegroom not wish appear, the bride would not like to see, either.
  Prevent°from the method that this kind of result appear in view of medical science angle, that from will soon become the bride's female to have sexual intercourse process to have a real very clear understanding.Should let bride understand, female complete have no reason frightened have sexual intercourse, dedicate a body in oneself love of the person be a kind of happiness, anything but is violate.Come up to say from the physiology, the female's vagina have to goodly stretch sex, as long as you be not frightened, complete can acquire pleasant sensation but is not pain and sufferings.Affair be so peculiar, you be more frightened more would felling arrive ache, but more pain more frightened, so, will sink into a kind of vicious cycle.
  So, how lead good wedding night of sex life?
  All want study some basic sex knowledge at premarital both parties first, understanding men and women's sexual organ of structure and physiology characteristics, in order to prevent make a some mistake to be the joke like the vagina to the female's urethra in the wedding night.
  Moreover, the bridegroom want to be appropriate to overcome oneself to be eager to beg of desire, slice to quit coarse reckless.The contact of the sexual organ previous, should gentleness, consideration, make every effort caress bride, relief bride of strain and worry in uncertainty with arouse her sexual impulse.Attain in the bride's affection and sexual impulse certain of degree, outside the Yin be moist behind again have sexual intercourse.The bridegroom want to control excite while have sexual intercourse, the action want slow-moving, soft, such as don't become at a time, can try several more of.
  The bride want to overcome strain, fear of mental state, amusedly with bridegroom match, so then can make vagina muscle flabby, easy to have sexual intercourse of smoothly progress.If hymen break occurrence ache, bride can two legs be upward crooked separate, by hand give, in the meantime get down hold back breath, can soothe ache.
  Some the segment be more narrow front the woman vagina, can Tu2 Xie Gu3 's demulcent, make penis easy into or male square first and by hand extend vagina slowly behind again have sexual intercourse.The small pair of have does a wedding because of hold, already very weariness from overwork, at this time uncertain carry on beginning night life, can mutually mean a rest empress the love, first time life postpone to arrive two night.
  Many youth men and women's in hopes of can exert to enjoy love in the wedding night of sweet.However, the experts remind newly married husband and wife, to sex of the wedding night life can't send to lead Gao of expectation, reality possibility combine be unlike imagination of so wonderful.
  To majority newly married husband and wife to say, though at premarital also or many or littlely acquire some sex knowledge, can once wanting to practice really unavoidably will appear too strain of mental state.
  But strain worry anxiously of mood, female possibility emergence have sexual intercourse pain, male possibility emergence impotence, premature ejaculation, cause newly married a night life failure.If meet again some severity of accident circumstance, such as man's outer skin Qian, bride suddenly fainted, the vagina tear to pieces harm, spirit allergy etc., is also can't fully enjoy.
  Even newly married one night of have sexual intercourse is success of, but mostly also hard attain expectation of ideal desirable state.Because, husband and wife double lord of moderate demand certain of technique, this at newly married Yan Er of will not control a while of, it of perfect with mature, demand both parties are in sex the life gradually investigate.

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